We’ve all gone out with people who are obviously not emotionally ready to climb onto the dating-go-round and yet they’re still out there, circling away. Maybe their self-confidence has taken a sabbatical, or they’re exceedingly bitter or heartbroken over a bad breakup. Or maybe they’re just plain, you know, nuts. How do you know when you or somebody you may be going out with is emotionally well groomed? A quick consult with a certified therapist is probably the best way. But there are a few things even an ordinary single can figure out.